I may have a reason to have a lovely Holiday. Now..I don't know this for sure...by any means. BUT..Dementor may head south for the Yule Celebration. Mind you this is purely conjecture...but by a little snooping, and the events of yesterday..it's plausible.
Here's the deal. Dementor is not very computer savvy..not at all. He uses IE and I use Mozilla. When he logs into some place, he doesn't log out. So I am able to check his various accounts and of course, all his history of where he's been. I don't check it often, I have no need to, cuz I really don't care.
(if he'd find someone else and leave..I'd be happy as a pig in shit)
Either way...after yesterdays events, (big blow up between us) and knowing he was alone here all day yesterday (cause I left after the blow up.) This morning...I checked several of his accounts (facebook, yahoo, etc). What I saw may have given me a clue as to what I MAY expect by this weekend.
(and I'm hoping!)
Some quick history; his kids..(he has two) very very rarely see him.
(Or call) His daughter is always saying 'she has to work' and can't take the time off. Same with his son.
Well, lo and behold when I looked this morning, his facebook showed a post from his daughter that mentioned that she was surprised she had the holidays off and could spend it with family. (and her birthday is on the 23rd too boot)
Hmmmm says I? I wonder which family she's speaking of?
Maybe..could it be possible that Dementor is going to go down and visit??
(cuz I know she won't travel up here)
Could it be so...?? PUHLEASE!!
(maybe he'll stay)
(Matter of fact, day before yesterday he mentioned in an 'off handed way'.."so we have no plans for Christmas right? We aren't going anywhere? No one is coming over?" I replied.."Nope. We are doing Christmas the day before" )
So, all of this seems mighty suspicious doesn't it? And why would he try to 'hide' or sneak something like this...I SOOOO could care less and would LOVE it if he would leave for the Holidays!!! Egads, you have NO clue how happy that would make me!!
I'm trying not to get my hopes built up..but I've got every available finger and toe crossed let me tell you!!
(matter of fact, I'm thinking of mentioning it to him "why don't you go visit your kiddos'..isn't your daughters birthday coming up? It would be nice I think)
I just don't know if I want to talk to him.
See...we haven't spoken since the blow up yesterday.
It was a stupid reason for him to get all bent out of shape, but I knew the 'good times' were nearly over.
(as I have mentioned in previous posts)
I actually saw the 'switch' flip in him yesterday when we were at the store ..
(MY mistake there..I asked if he wanted to go shopping with me..heaven forbid I EVER do that again....will I ever learn?)
Anyway....he went from a stint of decent behavior, to full blown Dementor in the blink of an eye.
(why? Cuz we were spending money grocery shopping!)
Which reminds me:
I need to make another post of "Weekly Conversations with an Idiot" cuz on the way home from the grocery store, he made the statement of "we need to go back to just six things to eat..there is no reason we should not be able to eat on .20 cents a day".............(GASP..what? You're kidding me right?)
I asked him "which century was HE living in?" At that point he shut up..not saying another word.
(I guess that question pissed him off...LOL)
I waited about 10 minutes and then asked "So what 6 things would you choose to eat all the time?" He ignored me, shaking his head, smirking up his lips as if the question *I* had just asked was absurd. He said no more. He ignored me at at this point.
See...he can come up with the craziest of things, but if put to the test to defend them..he scoots to a corner with haste.
Anyway..now I have to decide whether to play the fool and talk to him..pretending like nothing is wrong, so that I can 'suggest' heavily that he go visit his kids for the Holidays OR...I keep up with the silence, because honestly, I'm doing my best to pretend he doesn't exist! LOL
All that said and done, I must go work some magic. Oh yes....there is more then one way to skin a cat
(or to get one out of your house for a few days!)
Till later!
The Crone of skinning cats
Sage
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